This week's Tips to meet him-and snag him.....

Welcome Ladies, Every week we'll feature 5 places to meet a great (White) Mr Right. + lessons, secrets, and tips...

So lets get started, shall we.... Places to meet single men (this week)

1. A friend's party. If you're looking for that special someone, try to make the social circles. It's so important to get out there and look for him. Then of course be sure to let him 'find' you. Try to have a little alone time because many men are reluctant to approach women who have an entourage around them.
2. Home shows: A lot of men who are single will go to home shows to browse and buy home items. A big give away that he is single is if he in NOT consulting anyone by sight or phone.
3. If you are a nurse or in the nursing profession, honey grab yourself a doctor! Many women have been known to go to medical school JUST to seize a good doctor. You will already have something in common (the hospital) and this should make small talk much easier....
4. Real Estate Open House: You can find many professional men at Real Estate open houses. They are there to purchase houses, or meet RE professionals, and they make excellent prospects. Also, you may meet contractors, agents, or other R.E. professionals...
5. Singing group: If you can sing, and you love it. Why not join a community choir or chorus and make some melody with a sexy single man! A singing group is a great place to meet someone who shares your passion. And as a bonus, music is also a great bonder between people. Some of the most famous couples in the world came together through music.....

Getting the man you want!!!

Lets start with a short basic lesson. It's very important to set yourself apart form other people when you are trying to get that certain someone to notice you. This is not hard, so don't despair.

1. Have a good attitude. One of the most important things a woman can do is have a good attitude. Lets face it. Sometimes life can be hard, but if you allow the things that can go wrong in life to keep you wallowing in misery... well most likely you'll be wallowing alone. Remain optimistic and focus on the good things in your life....
2. Deal from the strong points. This means go after people who are like you!!! If you are Halle, you can get a handsome super hot white model easily. But if you look like Whoopi, chances are that won't happen. If you have a great body and you are in shape, go after men who are likewise. Chances are you two will have something in common. (Exercise, and nutrition). If you are really smart, go after really smart men. You two can challenge each other's brains and really have a blast. The point is to deal from strength.....
3. Look for similar VALUES!!! It's perfectly ok for two people to be different colors, but different religions or different values often cause long term and painful feuds. No matter what, people should have similar values. They don't have to be exact, but they should be very similar. Imagine you believe in fidelity and he believes in open marriages! Can you imagine the turmoil? Imagine you believe that abortion is ok, and he thinks it's murder, and people should be jailed for it!!! You can almost envision that marriage as that hell on earth it's destined to become. Learn his values. Values are very important. What is really special to him? What would he never do, and what is no big deal? Really get into these types of discussions that allow you to view your mate's soul, You need someone you can share common values with, You need a substance that will bond you two together long after your looks and great bodies are gone...

If you ladies were paying attention to the clues in this lesson, you would have noticed how many times I used words like: imagine and view, envision, and look, and you would know from prior lessons, that I am a visual! Always pay attention to clues people give off....

Thank you all for tuning in: Hearing Man lesson in a few days......